30-Day Online Dating Tips and Safety. from African Abroad Date's blog

Welcome to our 30-day series on online dating tips and safety, brought to you by African Abroad Date! Whether you're a seasoned swiper or a dating app newbie, navigating the digital dating world can be both thrilling and daunting. To help you shine and stay safe, we've crafted a collection of short, funny, and entertaining tips. With the purpose of serving you up a nugget of wisdom to enhance your online dating experience, from perfecting your profile to making meaningful connections while ensuring your safety. So, buckle up, enjoy the ride, and let's make your online dating journey as fun and successful as possible!

Day 1: Profile Picture Magic

Tip: Use a recent photo. No one wants to meet your 2010 self: Unless you’re a vampire and haven't aged since then, keep it current!

Day 2: The Bio Balance

Tip: Keep your bio short but sweet. Show personality: Leave some mystery. Save your stamp collection stories for date three.

Day 3: Honesty is the Best Policy

Tip: Be honest about your interests: If you say you love hiking, you might actually have to go outside.

Day 4: First Message Fun

Tip: Start with a quirky question, not just "Hey": Ask them their favorite dinosaur. Trust me, it works!

Day 5: Grammar Matters

Tip: Use proper grammar and spelling: You're not writing a novel, but u dnt want 2 sound like dis. Lol

Day 6: No Ex Talk

Tip: Avoid mentioning exes in your profile: No one wants to be your free therapist.

Day 7: Photos Galore

Tip: Use a variety of photos: Show you’re a real person, not a stock photo model.

Day 8: Humor Helps

Tip: Use humor to break the ice: Just don’t go overboard. Nobody likes a wannabe stand-up comedian.

Day 9: Timing is Everything

Tip: Don’t respond instantly to every message: You’re not a 911 operator, take a breath!

Day 10: Be Clear About Intentions

Tip: Be upfront about what you’re looking for: Avoid the 'I’m just here for the comments' vibe.

Day 11: Group Shots: Yay or Nay?

Tip: Limit group photos: Make sure they know which one is you. No one likes a guessing game.

Day 12: Avoid Clichés

Tip: Skip the overused phrases: We get it, you ‘like to laugh’—who doesn’t?

Day 13: Punctual Profile Updates

Tip: Keep your profile updated: Don’t let your online self be stuck in 2018.

Day 14: Pets in Pics

Tip: Include pets in your photos: If they don’t like dogs, are they even human?

Day 15: Stay Positive

Tip: Keep your profile upbeat: Nobody wants to date a Debbie Downer. That's a Fact!

Day 16: Don't Overshare

Tip: Save personal details for later: No one needs your social security number just yet.

Day 17: Variety is the Spice of Life

Tip: Try different medium: It's OK to swipe left, swipe right, but don't neglect around you as there could be Mr. or Ms. Right.

Day 18: Safety First

Tip: Always meet in public for the first date: Dinner in a dark alley? Hard pass.

Day 19: Trust Your Gut

Tip: If something feels off, it probably is: Your gut is smarter than you think. Trust the tingle.

Day 20: Be Yourself

Tip: Authenticity wins: Unless you’re Batman, then be Batman or Cat Woman. 

Day 21: Set Boundaries

Tip: Establish communication boundaries early: No midnight serenades unless you’re a Grammy winner.

Day 22: Conversation Starters

Tip: Have a list of fun questions: What’s your zombie apocalypse plan? You know, just in case.

Day 23: Keep Calm and Swipe On

Tip: Don’t get discouraged by rejections: They’re missing out on you, not the other way around. I don't lie!

Day 24: Stay Safe Online

Tip: Don’t share personal info too soon: They don’t need your bank pin, just your winning personality.

Day 25: Avoid Ghosting

Tip: Be courteous, even when uninterested: You’re dating, not starring in a horror movie.

Day 26: Keep it Light

Tip: Start conversations on a positive note: Don’t dive into politics on date one. Save the debates for Thanksgiving.

Day 27: Picture Perfect

Tip: Avoid heavily filtered photos: Cat ears are cute, but your face is cuter.

Day 28: Pay Attention

Tip: Read their profile before messaging: Nothing says 'I’m lazy' like asking a question they’ve already answered.

Day 29: Stay Cool

Tip: Don’t be too eager: Desperation is a cologne no one wants to wear."

Day 30: Have Fun!

Tip: Remember, dating should be fun: It’s not a job interview, it’s a chance to meet someone awesome. Enjoy it!

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